MY BELATED TRIBUTE TO MOM
It's hard to believe that it's been 38 years since mother passed away in
1977. I wish I could have spoken at her funeral, but I was too
broken-hearted at the time. I still remember it like yesterday... and of
course, my memory of her remains fresh and vivid.
Mom was my best friend, and the kindest, most loving person I've ever
known. She was married to my dad for 42 years, and together they raised
their family to be people of character, faith, hard work and good moral
values.
After her cancer was discovered in 1971, she rededicated her life to
Christ, and began a prayer campaign for all her kids and grandkids to
come to the Lord. While none were anything less than good and decent
people, not all were living for God... especially me.
Mom never knew the extent of the problems and mischief I got into, but only that my
heart had wondered far from the God of my youth. She prayed intensely
for me, shared God's love with patience and kindness... and eventually,
when I found myself in great despair from the mess I had made of my
life, I finally reached out to the Lord... who forgave me, restored me,
and gave me new meaning for life.
I will forever be grateful to mom, not only for her maternal love, but
for her persevering prayers that God used to bring me back to Him. I
have never stopped missing her, and look forward to seeing her again one day in
the presence of our Savior in Heaven.
Dale A. Robbins, 2015
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OBITUARY
FOR IRENE ROBBINS - On Monday, January 10, 1977,
at Methodist Hospital in Indianapolis, Irene
Robbins, age 61, went to be the Lord. She succumbed to complications
relating to cancer, after waging a valiant battle against the illness
for six years.
Born January 18, 1915 in Hamilton County, the daughter of Isaac and
Bessie Summitt Brown, she spent most of her life in Adams Township. She
married Myron F. Robbins on August 24, 1935. Together they had five
children: Two sons, Myron Jr (Gale) of Marion and Rev. Dale A. (Jerri)
Robbins, Sheridan; three daughters, Mrs. Helen (Gerald) Sanders,
Lebanon, Mrs. Joan (Fred) Heine, Carmel and Mrs. Barbara (John) Hiatt,
Baker's Corner; and 10 grandchildren.
Coincidentally, her parents also had five children, two sons and three
daughters. Her two brothers are, William (Sarah) Brown, Cicero and John
(Charlote) Brown, Noblesville; Two sisters, Mrs. Carol Opal (Harold)
Spear, Lebanon, and Martha (Kenneth) Lutz of Sheridan (both deceased).
Irene attended Lighthouse Tabernacle Assembly of God Church in Carmel
and was a former member of the Travelaires Club in Sheridan. She also
belonged to the Sheridan Extension Homemakers Club and was a charter
member of the Sheridan Historical Society. For many years Irene worked
as a beautician in the Sheridan area, had been previously employed by
RCA in Indianapolis, and was homemaker and farm-wife to her
husband Myron Sr. She attended Westfield High School and Indianapolis Beauty College.
Services will be held Wednesday at 2 p.m. at the Lighthouse Tabernacle
Assembly of God Church in Carmel, with the Rev. William Totman and Rev.
Jesse Griffith officiating. Burial will be in Crown View Cemetery in
Sheridan.
Friends may call at the Kercheval Funeral Home in Sheridan after 3 p.m.
Tuesday. The body will lie in state for one hour prior to the service at
Carmel.
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Myron, Dale, Irene 1965 |
Mom, Lassie and
Teddy, 1964 |
Jerri, Dale and Mom,
1976 |
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Dale, Mom, Mark,
Helen, Dad, Tommy, 1970 |
Irene 1967 |
Dad and Mom, Boxley
Rd home, mid 1960's |
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Mom's greatest joy in life was her family, her kids
and grandkids... and her greatest legacy is the love that both
she and dad invested in each of us. Mother was a hard working
person, and besides raising five kids on a meager income, she
helped with many of the daily chores on our small 20-acre
farm... and also endured a lot, including the absence of an
indoor bathroom, until we moved to a new 3-acre home on Boxley
Road in 1959. After this we no longer farmed, but she and dad did maintain
a large garden, along with a small number of sheep and livestock... and she enjoyed working in the large yard,
planting shrubs, trees, flowers, and playing with her Collie,
Lassie, and my little Terrier, Teddy. In the 1960's she worked
on an assembly line at RCA in Indianpolis for a time, and after
graduating from beauty college, cut and styled hair in a shop in
Sheridan, as well as from our home. While my dad had a more
stoic personality, mother expressed her emotions freely... was
quite sensitive, cried easily when moved, and had a great sense
of humor. She was a fun, playful person, and I can remember many
times of laughter in our home. She and our aunt Sarah Brown (her
brother Bill's wife) always seemed to have something to laugh
about... and somtimes laughed so hard, they'd turn red in the
face! Mom loved music, had a good singing voice, and
occasionally played our upright piano, something she learned
when she was young. She had also played the cornet in the band
when she attended Westfield High School. My dad was not as
gifted musically, but would sometimes sing to my mom at night...
especially if she had been sad or upset. The song I remember
most, was "Goodnight Irene," a special song between them for
years (which became popular the year they were married). I was only 4 or
5 years old, but can still remember the sound of his squeaky
voice, singing to my mom in the darkness of their room at
bedtime when we lived on our little farm. She and dad endured
many hard times, but they also enjoyed many wonderful times and
a full life together, remaining devoted to their marriage for 42
years. (The photo at the right is young Myron and Irene, probably
before they were married, around 1935. In that photo, and the one with her in the open car door lower left, she bears a shocking resemblance to our only daughter, Angie.) |
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Irene Brown,
probably 1934 |
Dale, Irene, Danny,
Myron, 1963 |
Mom playing with
"Buster" around 1953 |
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Jeff, Myron, Danny,
Dale, Irene, Julie, 1971
(Dale's graduation party at Joan's house
in Sheridan) |
Dale, Dad, Mom,
20-acre farm, 1953 |
Mom, Dad, John Hiatt, 1965 |
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Mom and Dad on
vacation, probably 1972 |
The Robbins Family
1955 Myron Jr, Helen, Myron Sr, Irene, Joan, Barbara, Dale (on
Joan's lap)
(The only known photo of the whole
family) |
Dale & Jerri's
Wedding Dec 6, 1974, Sheridan Church of God. Pictured: Jerri's Grandma Pane,
Jerris mom, Corene Keller, Jerri, Dale, Dale's mom, Irene,
Dale's Dad, Myron.
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